Don’t you hate when you have a disagreement with your love ones and in the midst of the disagreement they bring up something from the past that you thought was dealt with and forgotten. I have been in these situation plenty of times and I must say it really made the disagreement worse than it needed to be. Its like you’re getting hit with something that you thought you where forgiven for but yet in a way its almost like you wasn’t forgiven because its continuously brought back up when ever a disagreement occurs.
When you’re involved in relationship or marriage you must deal with the current situation and not bring up the past cause it only cause problems, disappointment, and distrust. So my advice is to truly forgive and move on once the situation is dealt with you you both either agree to disagree or agree with how the both of you will move forward and not bring the disagreement up anymore.
This is just my perspective on life, relationship and growth.
Continue to get better!