I have been in athletics for 20 plus year. I have been involved in various sports such as Football, Track and Field, swimming, and a short stint in baseball. Sports gave me an opportunity to compete and how not to give up when things get tough. I now have two little boys who are very smart but not yet really interested in sports. I can’t help but to wonder if they aren’t that interested because I haven’t spent a lot of time with them watching football or even going out to watch the game on the big screen just to see the environment. I asked my wife what she thought about this and her answer was “ you haven’t really stressed sports with them” so I walked out of the room (upset) and started thinking. I really thought because I’m a coach and they have been around football all their little lives they would want to play. Obviously, I realize that’s not the case and need to spend more time with them to help with there development as young athletes and men. During this time of the year i’m rarely home besides to sleep, shower, and eat which is the life of most collegiate coaches. However, this incident has made me realize that I need to help my boys learn how to compete and get better. Being a father just isn’t about working, paying bills and being strong its about spending quality time with your kids and showing them how to do things that will develop them as men. Today make time for your kids and make memories they will never forget.